i have serious issues with people not listening.
i try my hardest to listen to someone. i try to relay what they've said back to them, so i can make sure that i understand exactly what they're saying...so i can relate.
i don't expect (or even want) others to do this, to share in the same method of listening that i do.
but what i do expect is to be listened to. to be found important enough to listen to. and that's not happening.